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Three reasons why men cheat

Three reasons why men cheat

Alright people, before you start stoning me, please please please note that these are not my personal opinions. This is simply a presentation of opinions that I have gathered from men in Nairobi, and guess what, they are actual cheaters!

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Alright people, before you start stoning me, please please please note that these are not my personal opinions. This is simply a presentation of opinions that I have gathered from men in Nairobi, and guess what, they are actual cheaters!

We all know that men are pretty opinionated when they have had one or two to drink. So, my associate and I checked it at one of the pubs in Nairobi last weekend and we were soon joined by a couple of self-confessed gentlemen.

What actually went down is a story for another day, but here are some of the reasons the ‘gentlemen’ gave us for their ungentlemanly behaviour.

  • NEGLECT First, just because you think of yourself as a good woman doesn’t make you one. Doing dishes, washing, and sex are by-products of a good lady. Let’s now get to the nitty gritty.After a few years of dating, some women do become overbusy and neglect their men. Not in a bad way, but in terms of showing just a little appreciation.Guess what! Men are not blind. They will notice the slightest attention that they get from other ladies such as their househelps, secretaries, females colleagues and your friends.And it’s never always sexual… it seldom is. Simply saying, a little appreciation goes a long way.

  • STARVATION Ladies, it I understandable, sulking once in a while is okay. Denying your man some once in a while is okay too. But you cannot keep it going month in month out. I mean, why are the two of you together then.While giving ladies a lifeline, I can say that sometimes it is not purely voluntary. Sometimes it could be mental issues (like depression – women are actually tie their drive with mental wellness), health issues etc, that sounds valid enough.Some ladies also have themselves to blame, when they start castigating themselves “Oh, I am fat” “Oh, I have too much Cellulite” etc. This kind of low self-esteem will affect how your man sees you. And that marks the beginning of your downfall.

  • CHANGES You used to be that chic who was fun loving, easy going, social and humorous. Then, all of sudden, you start being petty, reclusive and a loneranger, shunning parties and company. Or perhaps you were this girl from upcountry who would not mind cooking using firewood or being taken to a date at the nearest Kenchic. Now all of a sudden, you turn into this chic who has a tweng and would not go for a date anywhere but Kempinsky. Chic, just know that the clock is ticking, and it is just a matter of time before your dude bolts.
    • So, there you have it, three simple reasons why some men cheat. Men, if you are reading this, don’t try this at home. Ladies, if you are reading this, the ball is in your court.

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